Exactly! People who say this are clearly unaware about how humans are like. Human beings are social creature, we need external validation and stimuli to remain healthy. The absence of it can create a lot of problems as people have realized during this pandemic. To tell black girls to validate themselves is literally telling them to go against their own human biology, just so that the world doesn't have to take a look at it's racist colorist beauty standards.

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